He Cheated: Hate Or A Four Letter Word by Dr. Sandra Scott Wright

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I was told of a true story of a couple married some 30 years and one day the husband came home and said he was moving out. To make matters worse, he moved in with an employee on the same job where they, he and the wife work.  That was not the shocking thing, what was mine boggling was  this same wife would see this new found couple everyday, and she was cordial to both the abandoned husband and his new girlfriend.  I was told she didn’t have any bitterness and in fact was one of the sweetest persons you would ever know!  I didn’t believe this until I saw and met her for myself…

I am retelling this story

Because at the time I said “I am not such a woman.” Now as I look back over my life I realize I still would not be that woman, but I am all that I have allowed God to transform me into. Having been married some 19 + years, divorced and remarried,  I see the transformation in myself, only possible by the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.  I remember the day I actually became aware of betrayal and how it felt.  It was a message left on the separate phone of our home, one I vary rarely answered . This particular day for some reason I answered it..”I enjoyed our hugging and kissing the other day, I hope we can do it again.” That was the message on the phone.  I felt violated, betrayed, and any other negative emotion you can think of…

I remember when

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With love and prayers for your Kingdom Journey

Dr. Sandra Scott Wright, Ph.D

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From Prison to Springboard! Yep that’s my journey, perhaps it has been your’s too.  My body has been a prison for me many years. I felt I was trapped locked up inside, it was fighting against me to be free.  I could just look at food and gain weight, don’t even try to smell the food and 5lbs in one day!  Okay, I know, I am a nurse and I understand women issues, fluid retention, harmones, thyroid and all the rest…but the fact was I was a prisoner.
Why God? My husband could eat whatever he wanted, and in fact could eat 5 times more than me, and wouldn’t gain a pound. I was frusted and tired, and secretly I now realized angry with God for giving me this prison of a body.  Exercise only helped me maintain my already obese weight, without it, starve myself as I may, the pounds would come on.  Sounds familiar huh?  Wait, God isn’t through yet.  A few days ago I began to confess my anger and resentment towards God for this body he gave me.  After doing so, I began to repent and ask God for help once again for the seemingly 10,000th time.  This has been a life journey.

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Comfort:  A Higher Truth

Dr. Sandra Scott Wright

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We were taught if you were sad, angry, hurting, depressed, lonely, etc. all we had to do was get on our knees pray, offer a sacrificial praise, or give a seed faith offering, name it and claim it, or call those things that are not as if they are…and everything would be alright…we did all those things and when we got done the problem was still there…Where is the comfort?  Watch the video and hear a higher truth.

Storms Are Here sung by By Rev. Sandra Scott Wright

Storms Are Here sungy by Rev. Sandra Wright

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Wind, rain, fire, clouds, dust, confusion, chaos, anger, bitterness, resentment, hate, turmoil, confusion, relocation, disorder, uprooting, disjointing, CHANGE….

The storm is here, the storm in now.  There is a shaking a tearing, an uprooting. Unholy unions being destroyed, leaches ripped off, codependency destroyed.  Wives carrying the entire responsibility of the spiritual and financial part of the family; Husbands walking in shame and failure hiding because they have been in default of leadership.  Husbands working job after job to give us what we wasn’t suppose to have in the first place.  The storm is here, the storm is now!

We thought he was supposed to give us everything we wanted and desired.  For him not to do so made him a failure in our eyes.  He gave us it all and he still remains a failure in our eyes…He thought he was to give us everything to the exhaustion and frustration of his soul. He could not be our God he could not provide us with all we wanted and even needed…he could not be our god.  He hides in failure; he hides in shame. Exhausted, frustrated, and then backs out slowly in comfort by pornography, all sexual perversion, alcohol, drugs, more fruitless work…who’s fault your fault his fault ours?

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Ladies We Are Now Good Enough!

author Rev. Sandra Scott Wright

Great Scholars, studying what they call “emotions” and we call spiritual forces, said the following:

Guilt says I’ve done something wrong; shame says there is something wrong with me.

Guilt says I’ve made a mistake; shame says I am a mistake.

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