Dr. Sandra Scott Wright, Ph.D

It’s All On Ladies! Christ Strengthens Us! Dr. Sandra Wright

Be encouraged ladies, It’s All On! Why?  Christ strengthens us. We can do all things because of the strength given us by Christ.  We can and will go through whatever fiery trials come to prove our faith. We will be victorious in whatever life circumstances have been placed in our path. Sickness, unemployment, separation, persecution, abuse, abandonment, infidelity, poverty, foreclosure, frustration, devastation or any such trial will not defeat us. You, we are more than worriors, more than conquerors, more than  champions, we are the daughter of the King of Kings, your daddy is the Creator of all created things. You can, and we will believe ‘all things’ are possible unto us through Christ who continues to strengthen us.

We desire to be the woman who when people see our good works in the midst of the most obscure and adverse circumstances …they will give praise to God for such a walk only possible through God. They will know that only by the power of God we are able to stand and remain light in such darkness! Whether that darkness be a marriage of adversity, a singleness of impossibility, a job of frustration, or whatever dark circumstances we may find be our journey. We will bring light to the darkness and disperse it in our presence. You are the daughter of the King of Kings, you have come to disperse the darkness.  The darkness, trial has not come for you, you have come to bring it to Light! Go through daughter of the most high you are more than a conqueror, you are a Woman of Victorious Valor! You are the Light of the World.

“…for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. 12I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. 13For I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength. 14 Philippians 4:12-14

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Ladies You Have The Miracle of Impossibilities Within You by Dr. Sandra Scott Wright

Your circumstances are dark, dreary, you have prayed, fasted, proclaimed, begged, pleaded, bargained, cried, swore, cussed and anything else you could think of…The circumstances, your husband, child, circumstances still remain the same.  Pastor, sister preacher, Apostle, Teacher, Evangelist, sister/friend, you have almost lost hope, or worse yet you have used some scripture to justify your failure, but deep inside you know you have failed and are still failing.  He hasn’t stopped drinking, cheating, the lies remain, the pornography, money spending, hasn’t stop. The child is still promiscuous, cheating, rebelling.  The darkness has remained… Where is God? Where is your power?  Where is your miracle?

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He Cheated: Hate Or A Four Letter Word by Dr. Sandra Scott Wright

I was told of a true story of a couple married some 30 years and one day the husband came home and said he was moving out. To make matters worse, he moved in with an employee on the same job where they, he and the wife work.  That was not the shocking thing, what was mine boggling was  this same wife would see this new found couple everyday, and she was cordial to both the abandoned husband and his new girlfriend.  I was told she didn’t have any bitterness and in fact was one of the sweetest persons you would ever know!  I didn’t believe this until I saw and met her for myself…

I am retelling this story

Because at the time I said “I am not such a woman.” Now as I look back over my life I realize I still would not be that woman, but I am all that I have allowed God to transform me into. Having been married some 19 + years, divorced and remarried,  I see the transformation in myself, only possible by the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.  I remember the day I actually became aware of betrayal and how it felt.  It was a message left on the separate phone of our home, one I vary rarely answered . This particular day for some reason I answered it..”I enjoyed our hugging and kissing the other day, I hope we can do it again.” That was the message on the phone.  I felt violated, betrayed, and any other negative emotion you can think of…

I remember when

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With love and prayers for your Kingdom Journey

Dr. Sandra Scott Wright, Ph.D

email: rev.sandywright@gmail.com

What’s Your Name Brand? by Dr. Sandra Wright, Ph.D

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Shame Plunged Me Into the Pit of Hell by Sandra Scott Wright

I began to perform to prove I was worthy. I began to run, swim, dress differently, lose weight, I began to move faster than I ever have as if life was passing me by…I was determined that no man would make me feel I was inadequate. No one would make me feel I was a mistake. I remember my father saying to my brother and I that we were mistakes. He mentioned that our mom poked a whole in the birth control and we were conceived. I set out to prove I was no mistake. Unbeknown to me I set out to prove that I was really ashamed of who I was, and I equated the failure of our marriage as direct link to the failure of me as woman/wife/mother.

I thought my foundation was sure. I had been a Christian some 40 years. I felt myself slipping, sinking into a hole of dryness and emptiness. I had changed everything about myself after the divorce and yet I still felt empty. I quoted the scripture ‘For in him dwelleth all the fullness of the Godhead bodily. And ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power.” Colossians 2:9 …and I still felt empty. I told myself I had angles encamping around me.”… Psalm 34:7 “The angel of the LORD encampeth round about them that fear him, and delivereth them”… and I still felt lonely. I went to work and had an excellent work record and I still felt useless. I had preached and encouraged women nationally and internationally, when the conferences were ended; I still felt empty…

I cried out ‘Lord where are you! Can’t you feel what I feel? I’m dying on the inside. Please help me! The new designer clothes, the diamonds I had bought for myself, they all were meaningless…I could find myself in nothing, not diamonds, new clothes, career, ministry, new look, nothing…. I was determined if this was the result of a failed marriage I would never marry for love again…

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Ladies We Are Now Good Enough!

author Rev. Sandra Scott Wright

Great Scholars, studying what they call “emotions” and we call spiritual forces, said the following:

“Guilt says I’ve done something wrong; shame says there is something wrong with me.

Guilt says I’ve made a mistake; shame says I am a mistake.

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Wife? Divorcee? Single Woman? Who Am I Now?

by Sandra Scott Wright

No longer wife, who was I now?  I enjoyed jogging, but was I a jogger? I enjoyed swimming but was I a swimmer?  Who was I? I began to write poetry, I read books still searching for identity.  Deep down inside I believed I didn’t want to get married again …no not ever.  The pain of abandonment was too intense.  Shame, I felt shame to some extent, shame of a failed marriage. Shame that somehow I wasn’t good enough…

My parents had been married some 50+ years and never divorced. I was a  minister encouraging women and married couples everywhere, and now me I was divorced! Shame of somehow I had failed. I wasn’t good enough.  Maybe if I had cooked better, sewed better ( I use to tailor my husband’s suits) was more romantic etc. Maybe if I was a different me.

It dawned on me for the past year I had been secretly trying to prove to myself that I ‘was’ good enough. That was why the jogging, the swimming, the losing weight etc.  Though I enjoyed these things deep down inside I was trying to prove to myself, that I ‘was’ good enough.  It was only towards the end of this journey that I realized I was still empty. It was all disillusionment.  Who was I fooling? Who was I trying to prove things too? I realized there was no one to prove anything too, not even myself. I was not identified as a wife only, or even single woman. I was not just a nurse, or minister who had failed in her marriage…I was a child of God. A daughter of the King of Kings! I was not a woman who had failed in marriage. I was not a barren women childless, I was not a single woman with no one to love her…I was the daughter of the King of Kings. I was fearfully and wonderfully made. I was the head and not the tail of anything my Father had created.  I was of royalty not based upon my journey or failures or success but based upon whom I belonged to…I was and is a child of the King.  My daddy is rich in houses and land; he holds the power of the entire world in the palm of his hands.  He told me to…

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